Like a butterfly🦋

"Heartache could either break you or make you". Sounds familiar, right? Did you remember those countless sleepless nights, tons of unanswered but's and why's,   loads of ice creams and chocolates, drums of wasted tears... yeah right those exaggerated moment, did you even hear yourself say, I want to die? I can't live without him? Then decided to click the pause button. Days, weeks, months passed by and there you are still, others even stayed and enjoyed being miserable for years. These words best describe you, loser, useless, dumped, unproductive, hopeless, dumb you know all those that your ex want you to to be like, he must be rejoicing while you are grieving! Truth hurts, yes and that's who you are if you will not decide to choose finding yourself again, you will lost yourself eventually. Please don't wait for that to happen. It's never too late! 

Have you tried touching that little fist like organ in your left chest? still there beating? Try this, inhale, then inhale again, there's still air? If your answer is yes! Try to gently slap your face, did you say ouch? If you do, you are still alive. Congratulations! 

Now, try to look around, bro, sis, mom, dad, cousins, aunt, your bunch of family they all untiringly stayed, your friends they would like to hear your crazy laughter, your nonsense humor, that autistic boomerang, that funny photos, they miss you. Oh, that cute cashier in the supermarket he asked where you were and remember that building security who never fails to smile and greet you? oh c'mon you are popular! 

Now this, please do me a favor, try to count how many is your EX, i mean that dude who dumped you, that badass who crushed you?. Then afterwards, try counting how many are those who stayed, loved and missed you, those who knows your real worth? I hope you have counted them well because they are too many that you neglect while too busy focusing on that one man who never ever see your worth! 

Get up, get dress, look fresh, smell good, look pretty, pick up your pieces and start taking your first step forward. 

I trust and believe you can, because if I was able to survived and came out alive stronger, tougher, better, I know you will as well. 

You can do it girl!